i realized that this week of may marks my one year anniversary of graduation from college. when you've been under the schedule of the school system for your entire life up to pretty much now, you start counting the years semester by semester rather than january to january.
so here's to my 1 year since college, and boy what a year it has been!
may, 2011: graduation. played a recital for my family. saw mom and dad at the same table for the first time since the divorce. moved myself on a very hot summer day to a house on packard avenue in somerville with 3 strangers. that very first shower felt oh so good after strapping on a queen size bed to the top of amaro's honda. helped amaro move to a new place in somerville, too- we rented a uhaul for that. the van was like our mini apartment for a day!
june, 2011: started working on the YouthBEAT project at the Berklee School of Music. actually started using the T to commute every morning, like a grown ass woman. loved being downtown in the midst of it all; hated being in air conditioning, under flourescent lights, in front of a computer all day. but, i did go to music classes and watch blues bands rehearse as my job, so can't complain too much- just learned i couldn't be a researcher.
july, 2011: went to the cape for a few weekends here and there and had lovely times alone with nana and gramps on the cape which hadn't happened in years and years. i love going to stop and shop with nana. watched the 4th of july parade in chatham, then hopped on the bus back to boston and got back in time for some magnificent fireworks over the charles on a warm summer night with amaro. picked up a second job at suneri. davis is always kind of magical in the summer- outdoor eating, places open late, music always floating in the air, film festivals...evan returned from tennessee to boston and stayed with me the first few nights. good thing amaro had gotten me an air conditioner as a house warming gift.
august, 2011: got used to cooking for myself and working normal person hours. got very good at making fruit smoothies, with or without rum. had many a dinner party with sharon, evan, and amaro on my back porch. evan and i slept in sharon's room all together one night when our air conditioning broke. good thing we all ended up living just a few blocks from one another.
i heard about the suicide of a classmate from high school. i cried on the porch where i had hung evan's laundry- we bartered- he cleaned the bathroom. i got a call from my costume design professor linda asking if i wanted to move to new york. i called anna. she said i could live in her room. i decided to go.
september, 2011: i moved to new york. my first bus was cancelled due to the "hurricane." south station was a madhouse the next day. amaro was such a good sport. i was late, buses were canceled, and i was leaving behind everything i knew with just 2 suitcases and no idea what the next thing was for me, which meant i was probably being a complete nutcase. we said goodbye.
4 hours later, meredith picked me up at the bus station in chinatown. boston and new york aren't that far away, but i felt very very far away. i felt like i had to be very brave. i moved myself into anna's room.
the very next morning, i took the subway to soho. i made it to the film office on broadway without an iphone. as soon as i got there, i was turned right back around to go pick up dresses from j.mendel. then saks, then barney's, then maybe gucci? i can't remember. i rode the subway 8 times that day.
october, 2011: i'd been working on 'gods behaving badly' for about a month. i get a second job working at bloomingdale's on 59th street. i meet up with tracy aronoff for the first time in years, and we share a bottle of wine over dinner al fresco near the high line. i start to fall absolutely in love with new york. amaro and i break up. my dad and i go on a trip to new orleans. i apply to the gap RMP program. i went on a weekend trip to the ocean in new jersey to play chamber music and made friends with my bus driver. i start writing once a week for tanteshaus.
november, 2011: i work on a few other productions- 'nous york', 'law and order'. new york is beautiful in the fall. i spend every open moment just walking the city, wandering through blocks upon blocks of this huge, groaning, beautiful jungle where you can be whatever you want to be. i take myself to museums, music, bookstores, nooks and crannies. i go to boston to spend thanksgiving with amaro and bill & lloyd. bill & lloyd are the most inspiring couple i know. i shake eileen fisher's hand. i complete my second round brand launch presentation interview for gap, during a lunch break at bloomingdale's while i was supposed to be attending the eileen fisher appearance event. i had stayed up all night the night before.
december, 2011: the snow starts to fall, i start being late for work at bloomingdale's. i land a gig with 'spiderman.' lia moves to new york to become a cellist. i start not knowing which way is up; i struggle to find where i'm going next. long nights, wrong men, poor sleep schedule. the way new york lets you get away with all of that becomes intoxicating. i called my mother on the phone in the stockroom at bloomingdale's. i was hungry and i cried and asked her if i could come home. i quit everything, wrote everyone i knew their own incredibly earnest thank you card, and returned to california just in time for christmas in tahoe. i left meredith and zeb christmas gifts on the dining room table. i miss them.
january, 2012: spent the new year in san francisco with my brother, sister, and mom. safe. as i watched those fireworks on the embarcadero, i vowed that i was going to get myself wherever i wanted to go this year; every year. i holed myself up in my room, rallied all the troops, and at the other end of that week, i had applied to graduate school at parsons. i cut off my hair. i shopped for shoes. i went to my gap RMP final round assessment day. i made damn sure nothing was in my way. i got the gap job, and that very same day booked a ticket straight back to new york.
february, 2012: i took a glass blowing class, because i have always wanted to do that, and i had an open ended christmas present from my dad. i ended up with a huge crush. i went to new york and had tea with lia in the lobby of a hotel with floor to ceiling windows. i spend the best valentine's ever with lia in the east village. took a bus to d.c. and had pitchers of margaritas and luxurious dinners with college friends. i hung out with family peter, angela, and kids. i bussed to boston and landed at evan and sharon's house- their couch is the best. i can feel at home there. i got the last of my stuff out of amaro's apartment and out of his hair. i wore my nana's grey coat with fur everywhere. it started gently snowing in boston, just as i got on the plane back to california. i was glad to come back.
march, 2012: i did a little nesting in berkeley, ca and made it my home. i rekindled relationships with old music mentors and started the path of figuring out what happens next with music. i let my heart wander all over the place. then i flew to tokyo. sitting at a public computer, i open an email from my dad. i read an acceptance letter from parsons, thousands of miles away.
april, 2012: hokkaido, tokyo, kyoto, nara, hiroshima, miyajima, back to tokyo. five weeks of incredible trip, and as traveling always does, left me with perspective. i was ready to come home. one week later i started working with gap. all of a sudden, i'm in a corporate office that has its own modern art museum. am i dreaming? did my own tax returns. not dreaming. i finish reading simone de beauvoir 'the second sex.' not dreaming.
may, 2012: i turn 23. i get my first paycheck. i start searching for apartments in san francisco again. san francisco is not like new york, but i like it, i think just the same. it's softer, more romantic, gentler, easier. less exhilarating, but kinder. i do my yoga, painting, music. i make friends at work with a british girl and a southern boy. i realize that it has been a year since graduation.
right now, 2012: i can't see anything but up. right now, this year, oh, i am so ready to make you mine.
so here's to my 1 year since college, and boy what a year it has been!
may, 2011: graduation. played a recital for my family. saw mom and dad at the same table for the first time since the divorce. moved myself on a very hot summer day to a house on packard avenue in somerville with 3 strangers. that very first shower felt oh so good after strapping on a queen size bed to the top of amaro's honda. helped amaro move to a new place in somerville, too- we rented a uhaul for that. the van was like our mini apartment for a day!
june, 2011: started working on the YouthBEAT project at the Berklee School of Music. actually started using the T to commute every morning, like a grown ass woman. loved being downtown in the midst of it all; hated being in air conditioning, under flourescent lights, in front of a computer all day. but, i did go to music classes and watch blues bands rehearse as my job, so can't complain too much- just learned i couldn't be a researcher.
july, 2011: went to the cape for a few weekends here and there and had lovely times alone with nana and gramps on the cape which hadn't happened in years and years. i love going to stop and shop with nana. watched the 4th of july parade in chatham, then hopped on the bus back to boston and got back in time for some magnificent fireworks over the charles on a warm summer night with amaro. picked up a second job at suneri. davis is always kind of magical in the summer- outdoor eating, places open late, music always floating in the air, film festivals...evan returned from tennessee to boston and stayed with me the first few nights. good thing amaro had gotten me an air conditioner as a house warming gift.
august, 2011: got used to cooking for myself and working normal person hours. got very good at making fruit smoothies, with or without rum. had many a dinner party with sharon, evan, and amaro on my back porch. evan and i slept in sharon's room all together one night when our air conditioning broke. good thing we all ended up living just a few blocks from one another.
i heard about the suicide of a classmate from high school. i cried on the porch where i had hung evan's laundry- we bartered- he cleaned the bathroom. i got a call from my costume design professor linda asking if i wanted to move to new york. i called anna. she said i could live in her room. i decided to go.
september, 2011: i moved to new york. my first bus was cancelled due to the "hurricane." south station was a madhouse the next day. amaro was such a good sport. i was late, buses were canceled, and i was leaving behind everything i knew with just 2 suitcases and no idea what the next thing was for me, which meant i was probably being a complete nutcase. we said goodbye.
4 hours later, meredith picked me up at the bus station in chinatown. boston and new york aren't that far away, but i felt very very far away. i felt like i had to be very brave. i moved myself into anna's room.
the very next morning, i took the subway to soho. i made it to the film office on broadway without an iphone. as soon as i got there, i was turned right back around to go pick up dresses from j.mendel. then saks, then barney's, then maybe gucci? i can't remember. i rode the subway 8 times that day.
october, 2011: i'd been working on 'gods behaving badly' for about a month. i get a second job working at bloomingdale's on 59th street. i meet up with tracy aronoff for the first time in years, and we share a bottle of wine over dinner al fresco near the high line. i start to fall absolutely in love with new york. amaro and i break up. my dad and i go on a trip to new orleans. i apply to the gap RMP program. i went on a weekend trip to the ocean in new jersey to play chamber music and made friends with my bus driver. i start writing once a week for tanteshaus.
november, 2011: i work on a few other productions- 'nous york', 'law and order'. new york is beautiful in the fall. i spend every open moment just walking the city, wandering through blocks upon blocks of this huge, groaning, beautiful jungle where you can be whatever you want to be. i take myself to museums, music, bookstores, nooks and crannies. i go to boston to spend thanksgiving with amaro and bill & lloyd. bill & lloyd are the most inspiring couple i know. i shake eileen fisher's hand. i complete my second round brand launch presentation interview for gap, during a lunch break at bloomingdale's while i was supposed to be attending the eileen fisher appearance event. i had stayed up all night the night before.
december, 2011: the snow starts to fall, i start being late for work at bloomingdale's. i land a gig with 'spiderman.' lia moves to new york to become a cellist. i start not knowing which way is up; i struggle to find where i'm going next. long nights, wrong men, poor sleep schedule. the way new york lets you get away with all of that becomes intoxicating. i called my mother on the phone in the stockroom at bloomingdale's. i was hungry and i cried and asked her if i could come home. i quit everything, wrote everyone i knew their own incredibly earnest thank you card, and returned to california just in time for christmas in tahoe. i left meredith and zeb christmas gifts on the dining room table. i miss them.
january, 2012: spent the new year in san francisco with my brother, sister, and mom. safe. as i watched those fireworks on the embarcadero, i vowed that i was going to get myself wherever i wanted to go this year; every year. i holed myself up in my room, rallied all the troops, and at the other end of that week, i had applied to graduate school at parsons. i cut off my hair. i shopped for shoes. i went to my gap RMP final round assessment day. i made damn sure nothing was in my way. i got the gap job, and that very same day booked a ticket straight back to new york.
february, 2012: i took a glass blowing class, because i have always wanted to do that, and i had an open ended christmas present from my dad. i ended up with a huge crush. i went to new york and had tea with lia in the lobby of a hotel with floor to ceiling windows. i spend the best valentine's ever with lia in the east village. took a bus to d.c. and had pitchers of margaritas and luxurious dinners with college friends. i hung out with family peter, angela, and kids. i bussed to boston and landed at evan and sharon's house- their couch is the best. i can feel at home there. i got the last of my stuff out of amaro's apartment and out of his hair. i wore my nana's grey coat with fur everywhere. it started gently snowing in boston, just as i got on the plane back to california. i was glad to come back.
march, 2012: i did a little nesting in berkeley, ca and made it my home. i rekindled relationships with old music mentors and started the path of figuring out what happens next with music. i let my heart wander all over the place. then i flew to tokyo. sitting at a public computer, i open an email from my dad. i read an acceptance letter from parsons, thousands of miles away.
april, 2012: hokkaido, tokyo, kyoto, nara, hiroshima, miyajima, back to tokyo. five weeks of incredible trip, and as traveling always does, left me with perspective. i was ready to come home. one week later i started working with gap. all of a sudden, i'm in a corporate office that has its own modern art museum. am i dreaming? did my own tax returns. not dreaming. i finish reading simone de beauvoir 'the second sex.' not dreaming.
may, 2012: i turn 23. i get my first paycheck. i start searching for apartments in san francisco again. san francisco is not like new york, but i like it, i think just the same. it's softer, more romantic, gentler, easier. less exhilarating, but kinder. i do my yoga, painting, music. i make friends at work with a british girl and a southern boy. i realize that it has been a year since graduation.
right now, 2012: i can't see anything but up. right now, this year, oh, i am so ready to make you mine.